Your spouse was destined for you even before this universe was created. Your soul has waited since then to reunite with its soulmate, and you will be united when Allah has planned. And He has the most beautiful of plans. You imagine growing old with your love. I imagine Jannah with mine. Its sweetness is far greater than the bitterness of having to be patient. Have faith in Allah. He’s been saving your love for you, since before He created the world we know. And after He reunites you with your love in this world, may He reunite you in Jannah.