Несколько фраз, которые значат "задевать за живое", "смущать", "раздражать":
To rub someone the wrong way
To ruffle one's feathers, to grind one's gears, to get on one's nerves
Пример:
That kind of jokes really rubs me the wrong way
Шутки такого рода мне совсем не по вкусу
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To rub someone the wrong way
To ruffle one's feathers, to grind one's gears, to get on one's nerves
Пример:
That kind of jokes really rubs me the wrong way
Шутки такого рода мне совсем не по вкусу
https://media.tenor.com/images/76a238953b24244602a5f7309019bb26/tenor.gif