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It’s impossible to find someone without some emotional baggage or insecurities. The real question is, how do we deal with it?
Some of us are unwilling to compromise on superficial traits: looks, intelligence, education, etc. Those are important, but if there’s one trait that I’ve learned you should never compromise on, it’s this:
The ability to see one’s own flaws and be accountable for them.
Because the fact is that problems are inevitable. Every relationship will run into fights and each person will run up against their emotional baggage at various times. How long the relationship lasts and how well it goes comes down to both people being willing and able to recognize the snags in themselves and communicate them openly.
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добавлю, что эта способность важна не только для отношений, но и для существования в целом.
умение признавать свои ошибки и недостатки сопряжено с обретением контроля над своей жизнью, а это, в свою очередь, положительно влияет на душевное состояние и способность справляться с трудностями. такие дела.
It’s impossible to find someone without some emotional baggage or insecurities. The real question is, how do we deal with it?
Some of us are unwilling to compromise on superficial traits: looks, intelligence, education, etc. Those are important, but if there’s one trait that I’ve learned you should never compromise on, it’s this:
The ability to see one’s own flaws and be accountable for them.
Because the fact is that problems are inevitable. Every relationship will run into fights and each person will run up against their emotional baggage at various times. How long the relationship lasts and how well it goes comes down to both people being willing and able to recognize the snags in themselves and communicate them openly.
______________
добавлю, что эта способность важна не только для отношений, но и для существования в целом.
умение признавать свои ошибки и недостатки сопряжено с обретением контроля над своей жизнью, а это, в свою очередь, положительно влияет на душевное состояние и способность справляться с трудностями. такие дела.